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技巧学习篇
eyecontact
眼神交流
moveyoureyesslowlyfrompersontoperson,andpausetwoorthreesecondswitheachlistener;
眼睛慢慢地从移动到另人,在每一个人身上停留两到三秒钟时间;
lookatpeoplestraightorlookatthebridgeoftheirnosesorchins;
眼睛直视听众,或看着他们的鼻梁或下巴
lookforthefriendlierfacesandsmileatthemonebyone,thenmoveontothemoreskepticalmembersandsmileatthemonebyonealso;
找到那些看起来比较友善的听众,逐次朝他们微笑;然后目标转向那些有些怀疑的听众,也逐渐朝他们微笑;
imaginetheaudienceinbathrobesincaseyouarenervous.
假如你感到紧张,不妨想象听众都穿戴浴衣的样子。
howtousethemicrophone
如何使用发话器
youmustspeakupandprojectyourvoiceevenifyouareusingamicrophone;
即使是用发话器,也要声音响亮并命运运限发声;
yourvoiceshouldberesonantandsustainedwhenyouspeak;
声音要有回声并能稍持续一阵儿;
pitchyourvoiceslightlylowerthannormal.listenerstendtoassociatecredibilityandauthoritywitharelativelydeepvoice;
调子要定得比正常讲话时低一些,听众往往把可托度与权势巨子性与一个相对低沉的声音联系在一起;
trytoenddeclarativesentencesonalowtonewithout,however,trailingoffinvolume;
∷服紧张的办法是调匀呼吸,深吸气,慢呼出。
howtodress
如何穿戴得体
darkcoloredsuitsordresses;
穿深色西装;
redtiesorscarves;
空朴素的白衬衫或上衣;
blackshoes,freshlypolished;
戴红色的领带或丝巾;
verylittlejewelry-worndiscreetly;
穿刚刚擦亮的玄色鞋子;
calm,slowgesturesandslowmovements;
尽量不戴首饰,要戴的话要非常小心;
shouldersback,chinup.
挺胸抬头。
howtousegestures
如何使有手势
makesureallyourgesturesaresmoothandnatural;
所有的动作都应该流畅天然;
don/’tputyourhandsinyourpockets;
不要把手插在口袋里;
letyourhandsandarmsdropnaturallytoyourside,gentlyfoldbothindesfingerstogether,withoutwringingorgrippingyourhandsinanyway;
将手和手臂天然地在身体两侧下垂,稍微屈起食指,不要扭在一起或紧握拳头;
letyourhandsdowhattheywanttodoaslongastheydon/’tgobackintoyourpocketsormakeobscenegestures.
手想要怎样就让它怎样,直到它不再回到你的口袋或在听众眼前做一些引人讨厌的手势。
pointatimaginaryobjectsanddon/’tpointatotherswithyourindexfinger;
手可以指点着假想的物体,不要用食指指着别人;
sizeorquantitycanalsoeasilybeshownbyexpandingorcontractingthehands; 心寸的大小和数目的多少也可以通过两手的扩张和收缩来演示;
gracefullyshowyouraudiencetheappropriatenumberoffingersbyholdingyourhandsata45degreeanglefromyourhead;
手抬起并与头成四十五度角,优雅地用手势表示出数字;
toemphasizephysicalsizesuchaslength,width,holdyourhandsoutinfrontyouwidelyaparttomovethemupanddown.
假如想要夸大长度尺寸的大小,将两手伸向前方,尽量分开,并上下移动